Suadagar!!!!

A master piece in Hindi Cinema.
Now suddenly why this? Ya that's true both the leading characters are my favourite and I love that movie.Such a amazing story and songs..surely I can watch it anytime.Salute to two Great Contributor to Indian Cinema "Amitabh Bacchan" and "Nootan".But there is more..
Once again when I was watching this amazing movie I realised how correctly it present two wonderful piece of God's creature.Amitabh representing a true MAN,so selfish , emotionless and lover of beauty:).On the either side a WOMEN,loving and caring .Even if she start hating the person, that love never dies.These two creatures can not be changed, even if they try...that's how God has made them..Man with practical mind and Women with emotional heart.
Remember the last seen of saudagar in which Amitabh goes to Nootan's house to ask her to prepare Jaggery and Nootan express her bitterness for him and at last she accept it.
Imagine a condition if the same happened with a Man....will he react the same????? or Can a women do what Amitabh has done in that character?
Few questions need not to be answered!!!

Yahoo to Matrimonial.com

Year 2000,I have created my first id aruna_Chourey@rediffmail.com .

Yes,started with Rediffmail.It was my official mail id, as we normally refer.Very soon it has been replaced by yahoo(yahoo chat) which I assume  as my 1st Social networking id ,in today's web language.

Remember those days when we used to go cyber cafe mostly to check mails but always looking yahoo online list.Chatting with people for an hour(know or unknown) by paying 20-30 Rs.Yahoo was really a good player in Social and official networking.

Then a new player came into picture called "GMAIL" and it has clean bold Yahoo...totally taken over official and Social networking.It has played a long inning...very long and still has a good health and game.

Till this time what  I feel is,people were happy and satisfied.Because their circle was limited..there friends were only few and they were only connected to people who were really connected.
Then suddenly somebody came up with a very new technique a way to fill the empty space we have in life(Until then we haven't even realised it).that's called ORKUT!!! a way to connect to people beyond limit..new frens ..new ways to fill your empty space.And we started thinking..he(orkut) is our friend for life.
But what next..everybody knows.....FB has changed everything.Today If you ask anybody "Do you have fb account?" see his/her response.Now no more orkut exist and I will not blame FB...We all knew its going to happen.As usual this time also we found something new to explore and again we started as FB is going to be a part of life...that's the way we can be happy.
But  slowly many of us(including me) have realised that basically we are looking at wrong place.
Basic question now: what we are looking for ?? and where we can find that?? So why not lets try Matrimonial sites this time;)
And I knew many of us already started!!! Wish you all the very best..hope this time you all will find someone who can fill empty space in your life...for lifetime. 

Life Is Beautiful !!!

This post is dedicated to all people who has made my life easy and happy... miles away from my Home Country.You might be thinking why such a late response...well then I would say,feelings always takes time to be expressed into words:)

 Its about  my experience very far from my comfort zone.away from my people,my country and my pride..where people understand what I say and I can understand them even without words.

          My very first experience the day I reached Denmark and at night reached to my house(where already 6 Guys were staying on top)...I was hungry...little tired ,scared in this new country and with the new experience which is ready to welcome Me.In this situation you only need food and good sleep and I was not sure of any..To my surprise my Colleague had prepared dinner already...I did not know how to express this feeling..but I felt very blessed that day :)

          A comfort feeling comes when you are walking to work for the first time in this new country where nobody knows your language and you see a smiling face wishing you a good morning.:) ..That was my first learning I had "Smile :) ,it makes things easy and it does not have language barrier!!"

            When you travel miles away from your  own people you definitely will be mentally prepared for all the challenges..Imagine a new office where you do not know anybody . 1st day when I entered to the office(scared from inside,still showing confidence).Smile on face ,with a mix of surprise and lots of hope in me(I thanked God to see few Indian faces )...I did not know anybody (with him/her I can laugh ..that was my biggest worry;) .Now tell me how you will feel when people give you a smile..ask you for lunch...actually help in finding the places...eager to show you their country..some times they will come to pick you and they show around the city.Second lesson I learnt.."Help is something you offer without somebody asking you :)"

        Think!! In this unknown country ,they are actually inviting you for lunch/dinner...their wives will prepare cookies(very tasty) for you and will pack some for you(You will remember your mom for sure..Thanks ).People will call you when they are planning for shopping and will tell you from where you can buy good things.

      When in this new country you will go to the some Danish colleague home and his two kid will love a small gift you have given in spite of a room full of all the toys.When the kids who do not understand your language neither you can ..still play with you for hours and hours(Love you Kids)....they do not find any difference....when his wife want to learn some Indian food...and by mean it.

       When on your last day your Bose who was on leave come to say bye to you and her young daughter give you a Hug..I mean I felt so happy when young Eda hugged me:).When somebody brings B'day cake before because you will be leaving soon:)

      When you are going to different country and not sure which train you should take for destination, you ask a old lady..who can not understand your language ...but she will take you to the person and will find out the details..

        when you ask if there is any thing vegetarian and aunt will prepare 5 Vegetarian and really good dishes for you...

          I know these are not big things but also not very common.We always ignore small things in life which are basically a big part of our life.Those are the moments I felt so happy ,I can not express in words,I feel I am very lucky to experience all this and it give me a immense pleasure.

        There are many more such small stories and this is what I called is my onsite experience."In every part of world, people love honesty and love you, if you trust them and show your love......Life Is Beautiful ...:)"

This is my way to thank all of them who made my journey a Memorable part of  my life:)

NaDaN DiL ...

Rishton me jeene ke bahane dhundha karta he,

nada dil ,yaadon ke sahare dhoodha karta he.

Yun to bohut hanseen si he duniyan hamari,

sab kuch jo chaha ,usse bhi jyada paya he,

koi shiqat bhi nahi is dil ko,fir bhi

jaane kyun kisi roj,ye tujhe dhoondha karta he.

Kuch rishten jo bohut kareeb ho jaate he,

Or kuch log jo bohut door chale jaate he,

Ham jinhe samjhe dil bhool chuka he,

Bheed me,wo chhute apne dhoondha karta he

Kwahisho ki koi intehan hi nahi,

Kabhi jaise namumkeen ko socha karta he

Kabhi fir hokar mayoos roya karta he,

fir bhi jaane kyun,jaane kise dhoondha karta he

Mer dil ka wo kona,khali he ab tak

Shayad khud sa , koi tanha dhondha karta he

Kitna nada he ye dil ,

yaadon me jeene ke sahare dhoodha karta he.....

Pyaar Ka PanchNaama...Be Aware!!!!

Yesterday I  watched a movie called "Pyaar Ka Punchanama".I am quite sure everybody,specially guys would have loved it.Honestly speaking, I like the movie,but I don't agree completely.I mean I do agree to the certain point ,that  girls do the things shown in the movie.Hard to accept, but as I have seen from my own eyes,yes they do.So I do agree with movie but only 50%.

The three main Girl Characters in the movie were extreme cases and thankfully I have not met any of those character in real life yet and do believe they do not exist.
Frist Character: I hate this character if she really exist.I do agree, that there are some girls who use guys to complete their task but the matter of fact is, guys only support these types of girls by helping them or giving them chance.That also after knowing that she is using them...so aren't Guys doing the same thing.. Time Pass:)
Another character: when you know girl has left her last boyfriend and is over friendly and blah blah blah...... In spite of all these things you will like her and go around with her.Come on...why can't you use your mind?Is she the one who will fit into your life for long?or I must say how long you can avoid the things you do not like?so why not accept the truth at the begining.So again the same question....why?? Are not you trying to make the use of opportunity!!!

Third character: I haven't seen or heard about any girl who feels happy to make her love cry.Ya there are girls who always wants to pamper(every girl want to be loved....but do not mistaken it with Pamper) but the character was extreme projection.And again its Guy's fault and if you are honest,you will agree with me.Do you agree, the guy was trying to be too good by avoiding the initial and small small things.Please if you do not like anything...just say it.Aren't be doing the same with our other relationship...Parents,Siblings and Friends.So why its so different when it come to love.But do not forget there is always two ways to convey the same message..right or wrong.And when you are talking to a girl you must be very careful about the way you convey.

       One last and most important thing about the movie I do disagree strongly....Has Anybody  ever seen any of the three male character in reality ????Guys being so nice!!!

Time As an Horologist!!!!!

Last time when my Fast track watch stopped working, I went to the shop for repair.It was a new Watch and I was furious on the shopkeeper,as watch was one of my favorite and gifted one.After looking at it, he said "Battery is not working so change it".And he changed it in 5 minutes.I was happy again.

Today suddenly when I am thinking about life ,I realized that Time do work in same way to fix the problem of life too.Seldom man fix the Time,however Time is on permanent job to fix the life.In the same way as that shopkeeper has fixed my Watch.

It is not, that every problem you have had in past, got fixed over the period of time.I still can remember many nights,I had thought that this is the biggest problem of my life and I will never forget it.And what now!!!With the time ,those became memories and then history.

If time can not fix the problem it will take help of Memory.In this situation Time will show the Brand New watch,a new way to live, so you can forget the old one.And it do work!!!We can not always cry for the watch which can not be repaired.

The bottom line is,whatever is the problem,Time has solution.Let the Time take care of it.You might not be happy with its solution initially , but I bet, the End Result will always be 100% Satisfactory.Like Yash Chopara's movies "Happy Ending".

So live the life and let the Time take care of all the problems.Enjoy Today.Live every moment of life.Express your feelings and do take care of the people who care about you:)

Inspiration....

From where and how I got this Inspiration, to write this Blog!!!

Sitting alone in my room ,around 6500 Km away from my  MOTHERLAND .Nothing to do, just few floating though in mind and memories in hearts.

Since morning I have visited FB many times, looking for friends to come online.The fact about FB is,

, you will find the whole world online...specially the people you do not want to see  but not the people you are expecting:) Well that was a temporary  reaction one usually have when there is nothing else to do.

Then I started reading one of my friend's Blog site as he asked my opinion about one of his new Blog.The blog was about "the reality of reality shows".Inspired by his Blog site and inspired by one of my friend's words(she believe I should write and express my feeling) I thought of starting my Own blog.

So that is how my Mind got a platform now to express my heart's feelings...sometimes agreeing with them and most of the time not!!!